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Adrian - Abbots Langley
Extended Schools Consortium

Co-ordinator: Kathy Buchanan Parent Support Worker: Amanda Woods
Tel: 01923-673760 
Email: buchanan.k@stmichaelscatholichighschool.co.uk
woods.a@stmichaelscatholichighschool.co.uk

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Parent Support

Child in Year 6? Did you not get the secondary school you were hoping for? Need someone to talk to? Ring Kathy Buchanan the Family Support Practitioner on 01923-673760 or 07596117403 (office hours). She will be able to give you advice on what to do next.

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Other Sources of Support

 

If you are a parent or carer and would like more information and/or support you can call Parentline Plus’ 24-hour free, confidential Parentline on 0808 800 2222, or go to the website www.parentlineplus.org.uk .

Tips to help your children learn

  • Give encouragement and show appreciation of the child’s achievements, whether great or small. This helps to build a child’s confidence.
  • Help children recognise that learning can be fun and that it can also be frustrating. Allow them to make mistakes and to learn from them.
  • Encourage a variety of interests, both at home, with friends, or in ‘out of school’ activities.
  • Learn together: Do things together, visit interesting places, talk about things you’ve seen on television, discuss life issues and give your child the opportunity to ask questions.
  • Let your child develop at his or her own pace. Be realistic and avoid putting your child under pressure by having over-high expectations.
  • Accept each child in the family for his or her own unique abilities. This helps to nurture a child’s self-esteem, essential for healthy learning.

What to do…if you think the kids spend too much time on
the computer

  • Agree the amount of time your child can spend on the computer every day. Be firm. Make sure your partner or ex backs you up and keeps to the rules when you’re not there.
  • MSN messenger is a favourite for your child to talk to their friends. Think of it as being an alternative to phoning – and cheaper! Keep a time limit as you would with the phone.
  • When buying computer games check if there is an age certificate, as some games have ‘adult content’.
  • If your child has already got into a pattern of constantly being on the computer you may need to rethink your approach so you meet half way
    Consider what interests your child has and encourage them to get involved in other activities. Find out what local youth clubs are available, or leisure facilities that won’t cost the earth.
  • If you’re worried the computer has become a substitute for friends try to talk to your child without making them defensive. If it is something that is worrying them you can put your heads together to see if there are ways in which they can meet new people.
  • Think about how your family spends leisure time. After all, is playing on the computer any different to watching a night of television? Kids like to share time with parents and other family members – board games may be old fashioned but are very popular even with today’s youngsters.
  • Have the computer in a family room so you can keep an eye on your child’s computer activity

 

Parents and carers wanting more information and/or support can call Parentline Plus’ confidential free Parentline on 0808 800 22 22. for more tips and information, check out the website www.parentlineplus.org.uk

 

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